The Dangers of Teenage Sex and Romance, and What You Can Do to Avoid Them

The Dangers of Teenage Sex and Romance, and What You Can Do to Avoid Them

The paths of teenage romance are littered with depression, disillusionment, abuse and mistreatment, lost innocence, unhealthy obsessions, distraction from school work and a healthy social life, horrible sexually transmitted disease, unwanted pregnancy, abortion, and worst of all heartbreak! Let’s examine the dangers of teenage sex and romance in detail. 

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What Causes Anxiety Disorders to Develop in Children – And 7 Things You Can Do to Prevent Them!

What Causes Anxiety Disorders to Develop in Children – And 7 Things You Can Do to Prevent Them!

Are you a parent struggling with your child’s anxiety? Have you noticed that your efforts to calm your child down, only make it worse? Are you at your wits’ end trying to help your child, and are really wondering, what causes anxiety disorders to develop in children in the first place?

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How to be confident without being arrogant: The secret to true humility.

How to be confident without being arrogant: The secret to true humility.

There are a lot of people around nowadays who seem to have a great fear of being arrogant. Maybe they have been accused of being conceited or full of themselves. Maybe they are genuinely successful people, and they are concerned that their success will go to their heads and they will develop ugly, boastful character traits.

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How to talk with a teenager who doesn’t want to talk: A Play Therapists’ secret to teen communication

How to talk with a teenager who doesn’t want to talk: A Play Therapists’ secret to teen communication

Many parents are extremely frustrated by what they feel is a lack of communication between themselves and their teen. With good reason, they are alarmed, because they intuitively know that if the teen keeps everything a secret from them, it will be quite difficult to effectively parent!

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How do you help a child with anxiety? A Play Therapist’s amazing tip!

How do you help a child with anxiety? A Play Therapist’s amazing tip!

One amazing technique I have created is to be meticulous to cultivate a relaxed attitude in children that, “Everything is Ok just the way it is… I as a child am doing just fine… There is nothing wrong with me and nothing I need to improve or work on…Things are really no big deal!” What does this mean?

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Is Perfectionism a mental disorder? The story of the man who had such low self-esteem, that he needed to think he was the Messiah to make up for it!

Is Perfectionism a mental disorder? The story of the man who had such low self-esteem, that he needed to think he was the Messiah to make up for it!

There are many individuals, both adults, teens and children, who struggle with perfectionistic tendencies, and they may wonder, “Is Perfectionism a mental disorder?” The answer is, sometimes no, but often yes!

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Do Therapists really help?

Do Therapists really help?

This is a case study of a real client who came to me in recent years. She has agreed to let me write about her case because she wants so much to help others so they should not suffer like she did! I am calling her Sarah and I have changed a few personal details to preserve her anonymity, but otherwise the story is 100 percent true to life.

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How to deal with Temper Tantrums: Why it’s actually best for parents to give in to them!

How to deal with Temper Tantrums: Why it’s actually best for parents to give in to them!

There is a very popular concept going around the is pretty much universally accepted by most researchers, that when a child has a tantrum because he or she wants something, and you give in to the tantrum and give him what he wants, you behaviorally reinforce the tantrum, ensuring that he will have more tantrums in the future. The logic is that the child sees that having a tantrum gets him the reward he wants, so he is motivated to have more tantrums in the future as a way of getting what he wants. I actually agree that giving in can lead to more tantrums, at least in the short run and under certain conditions. But in discussing how to deal with temper tantrums, my point is you should still give in to them as best as you can anyway, and combined with some other strategies, you will in the long run actually eliminate tantrums! Let me explain…

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How to Prevent Emotional and Behavioral Disorders in Children: A Parent’s Guide

How to Prevent Emotional and Behavioral Disorders in Children: A Parent’s Guide

In order to learn how to prevent emotional and behavioral disorders in children, we need to understand that, contrary to popular belief, disorders such as anxiety, depression, ADHD, Oppositional Defiant Disorder and almost all others, are in my opinion and my clinical experience, NOT caused by genetics and biology! As has been demonstrated to me countless times, they occur when a child is born with a particularly sensitive temperament, and then experiences certain adverse childhood stressors, which because of his sensitive nature, are experienced as a trauma. The emotional disorder is the body and mind’s maladaptive attempt to cope with that trauma.

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How Does Stuttering Therapy For Children Work Using Play Therapy and Parenting Interventions?

How Does Stuttering Therapy For Children Work Using Play Therapy and Parenting Interventions?

If I were to tell you that stuttering is genetic, or a hard-wired brain or speech defect, there would be nothing you could do to prevent it and little you could do to cure it, as you can’t change a child’s genetics or biology very much. But since I’m telling you that it is fueled by stressors in the environment, by changing the child’s environment through stuttering therapy for children including Play Therapy and Parenting Interventions, you can defuse what’s fueling the stuttering, and even allow it to be replaced with healthy speech habits which develop from the child’s newly earned emotional health!

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